08/08/09

Last Sat was my mum 49 day or the so call the (7 7 49天). So fast my mum have left me for 49days liao.
In Buddhism when is the 49day u need to do some prayers. Well almost screw up the whole thing. As I do not know much of this things, i leave to my cousin ah Hock to take care. He came to my house on tuesday, and i ask him wat am i suppose to do. He suggest to me that to burn all those offering(including paper house) at the void deck. But i say i want to do it at bright Hill temple. So he call the monk who is coming on sat on hw to do. Some how the lady i think gave info or some sort. She say i need to invite my mum back home,chant and go back bright hill. Well since she has experience in this and believe her.

The night b4 ah Mu call and told me the way i do it is wrong as no 1 will be doing wat i am going to do. So she is kind enough to help me call the related ppl late at night to make things right. On the day itself,
every thing went quite smoothly. My cousin ah Heng come and fetch us to bright hill and back. Well I have to thank all my relative who help me make things right. If not i will screw this important thing and my Mum will not rest in peace.